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About How C*m

Host & Creator

Remy Kassimir is a New York City born stand up comedian and actor who got her start in improv at the Upright Citizens Brigade.


At age 27, Remy conceptualized the idea of How Cum after years of never having an orgasm; following many private attempts, she realized that she needed to be held accountable on this difficult journey and a podcast would be the perfect medium to do so.


After achieving her “goal” she made the decision to continue the podcast in an effort to reach the most people and help them feel less alone in the worlds of sex, relationships, and self-worth. Since its launch, listeners all over the world have written in to How Cum and over 500 have had their first orgasms, while countless others have had orgasms in new ways.


Remy performs stand up comedy around the world and has been featured on Netflix Explained, SiriusXM, Refinery29, and received one of the first ever Sexcellence Awards from Cosmopolitan. 

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Charlotte Kassimir

Producer Season 1 & 2

Charlotte Kassimir graduated Summa Cum Laude and Phi Beta Kappa from Hamilton College with Chi Psi honors in psychology.


After graduation, she worked at HBO’s Last Week Tonight with John Oliver, most recently as a Research Associate Producer. Melding her background in research and psychology,


Charlotte joined the How Cum to help answer all of the questions you’ve ever wanted to know, but never ask. Charlotte eats a troubling amount of pizza and has heartburn most of the time - two facts that are likely (definitely) related. Also, she’s Remy’s sister - obviously.

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Robyn Kennedy

Producer Season 3, 4,   & 5

Robyn Kennedy (she/her) is our resident Gen-Z team member from New Zealand.


Starting out as a cumpanion with great ideas, Robyn was quick to join the How C*m team as the first intern.


Having left school to head straight into a Timber Joinery Apprenticeship, she had her pathway laid out for her in the building industry; and listening to podcasts was just a hobby, until she fell in love with How C*m.


Robyn is now the producer How C*m, and Remy’s “right-hand man”. When she’s not working, you can find her travelling, sleeping, or taking pictures of her insanely cute doggo Frankie.

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The more you orgasm the more orgasmic you become.

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