Girl's Best Friend - 2-in-1 vibrator and clitoris stimulator. The innovative vacuum technology both sucks and vibrates your clitoris, simulating realistic oral pleasure. tuLips - Tulips bullet vibrator is uniquely designed to stimulate the entire clitoris (not just the tip). The two lips of the tulips act like a kiss to the clitoris, gently embracing and stimulating the tip, while vibrating the entire clitoris beneath the surface. Pixie - A clitoral vibrator that fits in the palm of your hand, yet holds serious power. The Perfect Match - The Perfect Match is a soft and flexible rabbit vibrator, with independently vibrating tips. Dual tips are paired with 10 settings to massage and pleasure inside and out. Charmed - Ergonomically shaped dual-sensation. Experience relaxation alone or with your partner(s) with a soft and flexible wand massager. Kissed - A clitoral stimulator with a flexible grip handle and a realistic feel - the soft, body-safe silicone mimics the feel of a tongue.

AirPulse Stimulator Pro 2 - Our classic and stylish Pro 2 debuts our proprietary Air-Pulse Technology, meant to excite your clitoris into pure bliss. Featuring a whisper quiet motor and a soft silicone head, the Pro 2 sets the mood to reach the peak of your desire. AirPulse Stimulator Traveller - The Traveler, both chic and portable, features our proprietary Air-Pulse Technology, making you weak in the knees. Whisper-quiet and topped with a magnetic cap, this tender gem is great for "grab and go" moments and secret rendezvous

Air Pulsing Arouser - The plusOne air pulsing arouser offers a unique sensation, harnessing delicate air pressure to gently, yet powerfully, stimulate the clitoris. Whether you’re a total newbie or sex toy expert, this arouser is a great pick. Mini Massager - Subtle, sleek, and ultra-versatile, the mini massager fits into the palm of your hand, bringing pleasure with it wherever it goes. Lay it flat against your vulva, or use the tip to stimulate your clitoris, nipples, or anywhere else you’re able to imagine. Fluttering Arouser - The fluttering arouser mimics the sensation of oral pleasure from a partner by gently stimulating the clitoris. The powerful motor has 10 different settings and combines vibration, with a fluttering tongue to create a tantalizing experience. Personal Massager - The plusOne vibrating personal massager is perfectly curved to reach just the right spot, with a vibrating head that provides the perfect amount of pressure. Compact yet powerful, it packs a delightful punch. Vibrating Feather Tickler - Sleek and ultra-versatile, the vibrating feather is the essential tantalizing teaser or full-use device. stimulate your vulva, or use the tip to stimulate your clitoris, nipples, or anywhere else you can imagine. Dual Vibrating Massager - PlusOne’s dual vibrating massager brings pleasure to a new level. With two motors and independently vibrating tips, it’s versatile with a setting for every mood. Whisper quiet with super soft body-safe silicone, this velvety dildo will excite you both inside and out. Dual Vibrating Arc - The dual vibrating arc massager produces powerful stimulation from both ends of the perfectly curved arc. The innovative ergonomic design contacts the body in the best places and helps you reach new levels of pleasure.

Eva - Hands-off, turned-on. Eva is a wearable clitoral vibrator for pleasure that stays in place during sex. It tucks in to enhance partner play without getting in the way. Aer - A powerful arousal tool for fans of oral stimulation. Aer creates thrilling pulses of air and a soft seal around your clitoris, so you can go all the way, right away. Pom - An inviting vibe to find your bliss. Pom snuggles close, bends, and moves with you, putting pleasure in the palm of your hand. Arc - Arc features a strong motor, a soft bulb with a clit-stimulating ridge, and an easy-reach curved handle, so you can explore and discover the perfect spot. Fin - A versatile finger vibrator designed to feel like an extension of your hand and add stimulation to your intimate touch. An optional tether gives you second-nature seamlessness. Com - Com is our body-friendly take on the classic wand shape, upgraded for comfort. Great as a first wand or for more experienced players craving intense external clitoral stimulation, Com’s curved handle makes it easy to hold while it works its magic.

Liberty - Womanizer’s LIBERTY takes intense orgasms beyond the bedroom with Pleasure Air Technology’s pulsating waves of contactless suction. With a sleek protective case, LIBERTY is ready to hit the road by your side. Now you’re free to enjoy incredible orgasms anywhere you want. Starlet 2 - Womanizer’s Pleasure Air Technology gives you an orgasmic sensation unlike anything you’ve ever felt. Featuring 4 intensity levels, you can adjust STARLET 2’s shifting waves of air pressure and suction for a customized, contactless massage. Duo - DUO is the best of both worlds. Featuring Womanizer’s Pleasure Air Technology, DUO stimulates the clitoris with powerful waves of alternating air pressure and massages the G-spot with intense internal vibrations.

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Get used to dedicating sexual time to yourself! A lot of people are accustomed to catering to other people's needs and not letting themselves get focused on their pleasure for enough time. In this assignment we are dedicating 20 minutes just for you (you can do it!). While alone, set a timer for 20 minutes, lay down, get comfortable and take everything off except for your underwear. Avoid any visuals or audio. Put your hand over your panties and breathe deep. With a cupping motion, lightly trace over your vulva. Close your eyes and imagine whatever fantasy comes to mind. There is no pressure to cum. This is meditation time.

Next time you’re feeling horny, check out some porn and get in touch with the things that turn you on. We suggest starting with the basics: delivery guy, romance porn, soft core or girl on girl. You can also search for anything you think you’ll like and then see where that takes you. This is no time for self-judgement. No pressure to masturbate but do if you want to. Pro tip: Many women find it easier to cum with audio porn. (We rec*mmend Dipsea)

Have you ever looked down there? Have you done it while stimulated? Get mirror next time you are horny and look at "yourself" down there while masturbating. You will notice that the clitoris will move slightly and also that different parts of it react more than others! Everyone's is different Watch how yours moves and figure out *where* on the clitoris needs stimulation. Upper right? Lower left hand quadrant? Note: Direct stimulation can be too much(or perfect!)

Go to a doctor or two! If you're concerned that your parts aren't working, you have a mental block that's stopping your orgasms, or both; visit a gynaecologist and a psychiatrist or therapist! Tell them your concerns and get a walkthrough of your parts. Discuss any medication you are taking and possible side effects, as well as whatever is on your mind that might be inhibiting you or worrying you sexually.

Go to a masturbation class! If there aren't any near you, watch one online at OMGyes or try an audio guided masturbation on Dipsea or Quinn. Get a tantric massage! Find a professional in your area who strained in Tantra and ask them their recommendations! If there aren't any, try a guided masturbation from the above sites with a willing partner.

Get yourself a toy! We highly recummend airpulse arousers or "clit suckers" if you will, they're almost guaranteed success. Next time you're feeling it, put a towel down, put on some music that gets you even more hype and get on your back. Bottoms off, (socks optional) use your toy and try ALL the different settings/ positions (on the clit). You can also move the position of your body and really lean into it. Keep on trying, don't give up if it hasn't worked for you yet!! Need toy recs? Check out our favorite ones on IG or below and use our promo codes for discount!

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You can find the unedited episode here! Along with Remy and Robyn's Post Coitus on it here!